Monday, 13 May 2013

19. Is faith a personal matter?


Matt 5: 14 – 16 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

At one point in our lives my wife, who is Buddhist, and I sold women’s dresses; men’s dresses are called Kilts.  We would sell at festivals, and events. It was a great job.  One time we set up shop at a fair in the Fraser Valley.  We arrived, and set up our booth, and then I went home to get changed and pick up a few more things.  When I arrived back, my wife came up to me, and with a concerned look on her face and said. “The woman next to us thinks that God lives in her heart.”
          At that time I also worked with kids with psychiatric illnesses, so my wife was curious as to what was up with this woman.  I walked to the booth next door to find that it was a Pro-Life presentation.  I chuckled and walked back, and explained that the woman was a Christian, and that by saying that God lived in her heart, she meant that she tried to keep Christ in the centre of her life.  My wife looked at me, one of those Canadians are weird looks, and went back to arranging dresses. 
          The woman next to us had no idea how odd or arrogant she had come across.  To my wife it was preposterous that God would live inside of a person.  To me it seems not that we bring God into our lives so much, but we are brought into relationship with him.  While it is he who reaches out to us, it is us who moves.  I don’t think we invite Jesus into our lives, as much as we surrender to his presence.
          While there are those that may think I am protesting too much about mere semantics, I think it is an important difference.  It seems to me that there is something a bit off about Christianity.  I would include myself in this.  There is a focus on a self-centred personal relationship with Jesus.  And I don’t trust our, my, ego-centric view of my faith.
          I am struck that as I sit with my Monday Night Coffee Confusion and Conflict group – also known as a community group – that my focus is on what is happening in my life.  I reflect on how things have been in my life, my company, my wife, my kid, and my concerns.  While I think self-reflection and introspection are important spiritual practices, I believe I am called beyond the concerns of what is occurring in my own life.      
          Yes, in asking for me to be brought into God’s grace, I have invited him into my life.  But in a very real sense I have invited him into your life. And into my family’s life.  And my neighbour’s.  And my community’s. 
          We have gotten carried away with concept of the individual.  Yes, I think this has come as a backlash against the systems of filial loyalty that saw obedience to the family, to the church and even our countries taking precedence over morality.  It has led to some rather horrific practices.  And it was Jesus who said “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple.”  But it could it be that he was calling people to adhere to different principles than obedience to family?
          Much to the credit of my Monday night community group, we involve ourselves in community outside of the church.  We also work on being supportive with each other.  And I, every so often manage to have a less myopic view of the world and ask for prayers regarding others.
          It is the aspect of self-centredness that most bothers me.  It is within that self-centredness that evil flourishes.  It is when I view myself as being separate and more important than you that I can do nasty things to you.  And yet I see, and I include myself in this, so many of us continuing our self-interest into our faith.  I believe so that I can reap the benefits of a life with the Lord.
          St. Paul would believe that it is through my faith that my family is saved. 1 Cor 7:12 – 14 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
          We are called, you and I, not to have individual lives in the Lord.  We, you and I, are called to be the body of Christ.  Our faith is a communal effort.  The early Christians were a riot – they were known as Atheists - because they were without the gods of the roman empire.  They were also known for their profound love of each other and the community around them.  They were known for their overwhelming concern with the world around them.
          Jesus also warned that “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.”
          To me this is more than just an admonition not to lose faith, but to realize that it is through our faith that the world is made a better place.  We are called the salt of the earth – salt at that time was not only used to preserve food, it was used as currency – salt protected and gave value. Could it be, that by our faith, we lend value to the world, that just by nature of having Jesus in our lives that we make our world more liveable?
          Jesus also told us, “I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.”
          Of course this is a call to be missional, but not as the one who announces the condemnation of the world, but rather those who bear the grace, mercy and love of our Lord Jesus to those around us.  As well, the call is more for my benefit, and you who get to view the inside workings of my faith are invited to ponder such as I have this week.

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