Monday, 1 December 2014

85. Hello Darkness My Old Friend - a second take



So last post I began writing about how my depression has created opportunities for God’s grace, and teaching.  If I maintain that God can use any situation to further his grace, and love, then I should apply this to my life.  I liken depression to living within a gray-scale world – everything is just a varied shade of gray.  This is not as exciting about a recent literary success that had fifty shades.  This is a continuation of that writing....

Hebrews 12:7 & 8 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all.

There have been times with my depression that I have wondered what I have done to bring this on.  Is depression punishment from God?  What was it that God wanted me to understand?  What was it that God wanted me to change?  Those days, mostly in my teenage years, and mostly in my addiction were excruciating.  I know about separation from God, as my depression has often left me unable to feel the love of others, as well as the love of God.  As I sitting writing, I recall feeling hopelessly lost, and condemned.
          I am not sure what the discipline of God would be, and honestly, I don’t know if I have experienced such discipline.  But I do know that this prickly shaped gift, has been of use.  There have been those of course who have been quick to point out that my depression is either God disciplining me, or that my faith has been lacking.  In this affliction, I find neither the discipline of a loving god, or a condition hastened by a lack of belief.

The first lesson I include today is...

Ecclesiastes 1:1 & 2 The words of the Teacher, son of David, king in Jerusalem:
“Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher. “Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”

The first two verses of Ecclesiastes resonated with me as a teenager, the time when depression had its onset.  I don’t think my depression was a hardship visited on me by God. My experience was that I could not pray hard enough, or study the bible enough, or be obedient enough to find relief.  In hindsight, my depression seems to have stemmed from just how messed up life was at the time.  While maybe not the substance of books, life at home was chaotic and at times violent. 
          But I have learned that all is meaningless. That which we place importance upon, prestige, possessions, wealth, whatever we may take as having significance, isn’t.  That in the end whatever I may think is important, is not.  Whatever accomplishment, whatever success, whatever importance I feel I have in my life is meaningless. It does make me any better than you, nor do your accomplishments place you in a position above anyone else.

The second lesson is closely related...

Matt 6:19 "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.

There has always been an aspect of my depression that has seemed a clearer view of the world, a deeper understanding.  In the absence of joy in my life, I have seen the futility of the world around me.  Depression has pointed out that whatever is shiny and new will grow old, dull and rusty.  There is no lasting value in material possessions.  Depression is also quick to point out that regardless of whatever wealth may be accumulated it can never make up for the
          It has taught me not to seek fulfillment through material goods.  Not that I have that I sought to “store up” treasures in heaven, but I have frequently sought that which has a lasting value – compassion, grace, service and love/

There are few people that I have in mind as I write this, I hope that in doing so, that I can offer encouragement to you.

Til next post....

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